Because your pet is part of the family too.
Bringing home a new baby—or even a new adult family member—is a life-changing moment. But it’s not just a big adjustment for you. It’s a major change for your pet as well.
Our furry companions thrive on routine, attention, and familiarity. So when the sounds, smells, and energy of the household shift, it can leave them confused, anxious, or even acting out. The good news? With some simple planning and patience, you can help your pet feel secure and included as your family grows.
At All Furry Tales, we believe every tail deserves a gentle transition. Here’s how to prepare your pet for the arrival of a new baby—or any new human moving into your home.
Step 1: Start Early with Gradual Changes
Pets are creatures of habit. Sudden changes to their environment or routine can create stress. If you’re expecting a baby or someone new is moving in, begin preparing your pet well in advance.
- Shift routines gradually: If walks, feeding, or bedtime will change, start adjusting weeks or months ahead of time.
- Introduce new furniture slowly: Let your pet explore the nursery or new living space while it’s being set up. This way, it becomes familiar before the big arrival.
- Create boundaries: If certain areas will become off-limits (like a baby’s room), start training your pet now—not after the baby arrives.
Tip: Always reward calm, positive behavior when your pet interacts with new things or spaces.
Step 2: Get Them Used to New Sounds & Smells
Babies bring a whole range of new experiences—from crying to nappy changes. You can desensitise your pet in advance using gentle exposure techniques.
- Play baby sounds softly during your pet’s relaxed time so they become normal background noise.
- Introduce baby products like lotion or wipes to get them used to new scents.
- Use positive reinforcement (treats or praise) during exposure so they associate the changes with good things.
If you’re welcoming a new adult or child, let your pet smell an item of clothing or bedding from the person beforehand, if possible.
Step 3: Prepare a Safe Haven for Your Pet
Just like humans, pets sometimes need a break from the noise and busyness of a full house.
Set up a quiet, pet-friendly zone where they can relax undisturbed. This might include:
- Their bed or crate
- Favourite toys or blankets
- A water bowl and calming music
Let everyone in the household know that this is your pet’s “safe zone” where they should be left alone when resting.
Especially important for older or anxious pets who may feel overwhelmed.
Step 4: Teach Gentle Manners (Both Ways!)
Before the new addition arrives, reinforce basic training so your pet is calm and well-behaved around new people.
Focus on:
- Sit, stay, and “go to your bed” commands
- Not jumping up when excited
- Walking politely on a lead
- Tolerating gentle touch
- If the new family member is a child, also teach them how to respect your pet:
- No pulling ears or tails
- No climbing on or chasing the pet
- How to approach slowly and use gentle hands
A mutual respect system keeps everyone happy and safe.
Step 5: The First Introduction
When it’s time for the first meeting, take it slow.
- Stay calm—your pet will take emotional cues from you.
- Let your pet observe from a distance at first.
- Use a leash or barrier if needed, especially for excitable dogs.
- Allow them to approach the baby or new family member when they seem curious but relaxed.
Never force the interaction. Slow introductions build long-term trust.
Step 6: Maintain Attention & Routines
One of the biggest reasons pets act out when a new family member arrives is because they feel neglected. While your attention will naturally shift, try to maintain small moments of connection.
- Stick to walk and mealtime routines as closely as possible
- Schedule short, focused play sessions—even just 5 minutes matters
- Give your pet one-on-one cuddle time each day
They don’t need hours—they just need to feel remembered.
Step 7: Involve Your Pet in the New Routine
Help your pet feel part of the new family dynamic.
For example:
- Let them sit nearby during feeding or story time (if it’s safe)
- Involve them in walks with the pram
- Use a soothing voice and pet them when the baby is around to reinforce calm behaviour
When your pet feels included rather than excluded, they’re less likely to develop stress-related behaviours.
When to Seek Professional Help
If your pet shows signs of extreme anxiety or aggression (growling, snapping, hiding, or refusing to eat), don’t wait—consult a vet or pet behaviourist. Early support can prevent more serious problems and help you safely move forward.
Final Thoughts
Welcoming a new baby or family member is a time of love, change, and new beginnings. Your pet, who’s been a loyal part of your life, deserves support and patience through this transition.
With early planning, gentle training, and a little extra love, you can help your furry friend embrace the change and find their place in your growing family.
At All Furry Tales, we believe every wagging tail and soft purr adds something special to our lives—and with the right steps, your whole family can live in harmony, together.